It Takes a Village to Raise a Child

Let's face it, being a parent is probably the most challenging but rewarding job there is. Whether you're a parent or like me, you've had the wonderful opportunity of helping others raise their children, you know it's not easy. I'm a southern girl and a product of the African proverb, "It takes a village to raise a child".  My mother was a divorced, working mother of five children and she is the first to admit, that without the love and support of her aunts and uncles, she doesn't know how she would have made it. I can honestly believe that my mom's struggles and challenges with my siblings and me would have been far greater if it weren't for my great aunts and uncles who gave their time, love, wisdom and even finances to support my mom. I encourage you, whether you're  married or a single parent, to find yourself a village.  Your village is a circle of people whom you can trust and who truly have your family's best interest at heart. These are the people who will play a key role in the development of your children. They will have a hand in everything from taking your child to daycare/school, keeping them when you need a break, disciplining them when necessary,etc. The "village" is also needed so your children know they have other people they can turn to for advice, because no matter how much of an open communication relationship you have with your child there is always something that they feel they just can't talk to you about. Widen your circle and build a village for your child. You'll be so glad you did.